Murrieta Mother Fights Breast Cancer As Son Is Dying

Nicole Aldrian has breast cancer and her 4-year-old son has a rare neurological disease called Krabbe.

Nicole Aldrian was diagnosed with breast cancer in November 2012 and is having a bilateral mastectomy on Wednesday. Instead of worrying about her upcoming surgery, however, the Murrieta mom is concerned about not being able to care for her 4-year-old son Trevor while she is in the hospital.

“The anxiety I’m having right now is not so much the surgery. I’m more worried about making sure that Trevor is taken care of,” Aldrian said. “Trevor is my priority. I’m not scared. I have a dying child.”

Trevor was diagnosed with Krabbe, a rare neurological disease when he was 6 months old. Having lost all motor control, Trevor is unable to sit, walk or talk and has 24-hour at-home care.

“He’s slowly declining,” Aldrian said. “Even with the best of therapy, he’ll never get better.”

Trevor and his fraternal twin brother, Tyler were born on Nov. 5, 2008. Despite being born a month early, both babies were believed to be healthy at 5 1/2 and 5 pounds, respectively.

“Trevor was bigger. He ate more initially; he was more alert,” Aldrian said. “He was born very healthy, not knowing that he was carrying this disease and was affected. It basically started in utero.”

Soon after he was born, Trevor began to have trouble eating and was treated for acid reflux. But his inability to keep food down and his irritability continued to get worse. He would scream whenever he saw his bottle, Aldrian said.

After a series of tests at Rady Children's Hospital-San Diego, Trevor was diagnosed with Krabbe disease, which is caused by the deficiency of an enzyme that grows and maintains myelin, the protective covering around nerves. The genetic disease affects about 1 in 100,000 in the U.S., according to the National Library of Medicine.

“We never dreamed of this diagnosis,” said Aldrian, who added Trevor cried in pain 15 hours a day. “They told us there was no cure.”

But Trevor’s suffering could have been prevented. Although infantile Krabbe disease is generally fatal before age 2, umbilical cord blood stem cell transplantation from unrelated donors has proved as a promising treatment. Because treatment outcomes are poor for symptomatic patients, however, it is critical that the disease be detected early.

California currently doesn’t screen for Krabbe in newborns. It would cost an estimated $1 per child to add the disease to the newborn screening test, Aldrian said. When Trevor was born, only New York screened for Krabbe. Missouri now also screens for the disease, and Illinois, New Jersey and New Mexico have also passed laws to screen for Krabbe.

“If Trevor was born in New York, he could have had this stem cell transplant that basically stops the disease in its tracks,” Aldrian said.

Aldrian and her husband, Steve Aldrian, have advocated for newborn screening of Krabbe disease through their nonprofit organization, the Peace, Love & Trevor Foundation, which was launched in December 2010.

In 2012, California Senate Bill 1072, which would have amended California's current newborn screening laws to include Krabbe disease and Hurler syndrome, passed the Senate Health Committee but stalled in the Senate Appropriations Committee. In April, a new bill passed the Senate Health Committee. CA SB 224 would also expand newborn screening to include Krabbe disease and Hurler syndrome.

Although the Peace, Love & Trevor Foundation advocates for universal screening, the organization’s primary mission is to raise funds to support other Krabbe families. Since its founding, the organization has raised nearly $20,000 to purchase equipment and supplies for families with children inflicted by Krabbe. Aldrian said her family has been fortunate to have good health insurance through her husband’s employer, but other families are far less fortunate.

“We felt we were ahead of the game with everything, but we were meeting these other families that either didn’t have private insurance or they couldn’t get the equipment or supplies they needed, and that’s why we started the Peace, Love & Trevor Foundation,” she said.

The foundation also helps connect Krabbe families with Dr. Maria Escolar, a leading Krabbe specialist and Trevor’s doctor. Escolar and her team at the Children's Hospital of Pittsburgh of UPMC perform clinical research and provide ongoing services for more than 500 patients with rare metabolic disorders from across the country. The Aldrian family visits Escolar every year so she can evaluate Trevor and Tyler.

“We know it’s not going to save Trevor, but it could help future children,” Aldrian said.

“She’s really helped us to understand and manage the disease. What we’re doing is making him comfortable until that awful day comes when he stops breathing.”

In the last year, Aldrian has cared for her sons, headed the foundation, returned to work part-time and has had several rounds of chemotherapy. Trevor is her inspiration to fight.

“As long as my son is continuing to breathe and fight, then I’m going to do that,” Aldrian said. “It would be so easy for me to fall into a deep depression. I have a dying child and now I have breast cancer. But I always look at the glass half full.”

While the Aldrian family has supported other Krabbe families, the community has supported the Aldrian family.

Temecula Valley Mothers of Multiples, a support group for those expecting or adopting multiples, has hosted fundraisers for the foundation and purchased water, Gatorade, PowerBars and other supplies on Aldrian’s chemotherapy shopping list.

Murrieta Mayor Rick Gibbs declared April 25 "Trevor Aldrian Day."

“He is about 4, he has lived two years beyond expectation,” Gibbs said. “Mom is on a campaign to show the value of the $1 test. She is working real hard to raise awareness. And when she was diagnosed with breast cancer, her answer was, 'I don't have time for this. I have got to take care of this child.' This child doesn't have much time. And that is such a shame because it could have been prevented by a $1 test.”

In addition to the mayor's visit, roughly 40 friends, family and community members celebrated Trevor on his day. Funds were raised for the foundation, including a $500 check from Brownie Troop 1369.

“It was just an amazing day all for a little boy who has never spoken a word,” Aldrian said. “Everybody loves Trevor. Everybody that meets him falls in love with him, and I’m so happy to be able to share him with the world.

“Yes, my son is going to die and it’s going to be devastating. I don’t know if I’ll be able to go on later,” Aldrian said. “But right now, as long as he’s breathing and fighting, I’m going to continue to fight for him and help other kids that are in the same predicament. Someone’s got to advocate for these children.”

To learn more about the Peace, Love & Trevor Foundation and how you can help, visit Peaceloveandtrevor.com.

—Maggie Avants contributed to this report.

Shari Salim May 08, 2013 at 01:23 PM
Praying for you all! You are an inspiration!
The Equalizer May 09, 2013 at 02:08 AM
What a classy act by mayor Gibbs. And Nicole? She takes "Tough as nails" to a new level! Incredible woman by ANY standards!
Cuz I Care May 10, 2013 at 01:52 AM
The website to help is in the article at the end. Go to : http://peaceloveandtrevor.com
Cuz I Care May 10, 2013 at 01:53 AM
Go to : http://peaceloveandtrevor.com
Cuz I Care May 10, 2013 at 01:55 AM
I just see that you got the web site. God bless this family. At least we can pray for blessings to overflow for this family.


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